Last night Okay, so I decided to take a little time for myself last night and get online. Went to gay.com, pretty much the normal hangout for everyone. LOL.... Anyway, barely had I logged into the room then I get messaged by this fella. Starts off nice...he asks me what I am looking for, asks if I have a boyfriend..the usual stuff. Then he asks me if I go out the club much and I told him not since this time last year. He seemed shocked by this. I then get asked, why not? and I respond because I haven't wanted to. And so then I get, what gay places do you go to to hang out? I responded, I don't have to surround myself with gay stuff. Which is true. I feel a little out of place in a straight bar, but I am able to go and have a good time for the most part...as long as I am with friends. Hell, I prefer to go to the clubs period with friends...or at least meet them there. So from this question he jumps to "how often do you have sex?" Excuuse me!!! Did you not just start talking to me less than 5 minutes ago? Where the hell do you get off asking that question? Rule of courtesy: If a person has made it clear already to you that they are not looking for sex online, do not ask them that question unless you have already been talking about sex. Or until it is a few days later and you have kept up a steady stream of conversation. Then a person's sex life can come up for conversation. I then proceeded to tell him that was very rude and closed the window. He popped back up and apologized...I said kewl and asked how his day had been...and he tells me that he was going to leave me alone. Okay....what happened to just chatting to chat? Why does it always have to turn to sex somewhere in there?
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