Weekend recap...
This weekend was relatively uneventful, but I managed to have a blast anyway.
Friday saw me leaving work early with migraine-type issues. What did the doctor say about it? “Take some Tylenol and it will go away.” Hello, that is what I usually do. If the PA here at work wasn’t such a bitch I would see her and ask for more Maxalt. But she doesn’t feel comfortable following what our old PA did…she has to do it all for herself. What a damn pain in the ass it is. Sorry, if I wanted to go get fucked and experience pain, I would get fisted or slid a dick in completely dry. So, off to the drug store it was and pick up some Tylenol…good thing I needed it for my knees anyway. Managed to drop off my license plate from the old car, too, so that I could get that out of my trunk. Don’t know why I was so worried about it…the plate was expired and considered dead, anyway. There wasn’t anything that could have been done to me. Oh well…one less piece of metal to worry about in my belongings. If I am going to have metal, I better be wearing it!
Saturday morning saw me waking up late and heading off on the wonderful journey of Highway 87 to Fayetteville and the nomad’s land of the Army/Air Force battles. Actually, it wasn’t bad, although I was trying to navigate a side of the town that I had not been to in a long time…in drenching outpours of rain no less. But, I managed to make it to Zach’s with very few issues (only one turn around!) so I could meet the wife of his roommate. Yeah, we are not going there…I have a few choice words for her that would shock even my closest friends.
We decided that it was club night, so trek off to Alias it was. Well, actually, it was a first stop at his ‘crazy Canadian’s” house with some drinkage happening to old school music. Salt’n’Pepa…I honestly can say I have not heard that since I was in middle school…unless you want to count when Ellen performed the song at the end of her ‘Here and Now’ HBO performance. Was pretty cool. Started seeing Zach loosening up and becoming himself. Well, I had actually been seeing that all day, but, either way, it was nice. The club was a slightly different story.
Why is it that when a bunch of fags get together, there HAS to be a need for drama? Between an old friend of mine getting pissy at me and some Army brat wanting to start shit with Zach and another fella, I think we had enough to last for a bit. Despite all the drinking I had been doing that night at Coline’s and the club, I still managed to talk a couple people down, although my temper was getting ready to fly out in a damn flock of angry crows. My friends forget that they have not seen me fully pissed off…start fucking with a friend or loved one and you better make sure you have some good health insurance. I have learned from a past experience how to hurt someone, and I will defend all that is dear to me until my dying breath. It is a part of the whole ‘I will do anything for my friends’ syndrome I seem to suffer from many a time. But, in this case, the Army brat is going to end up on restriction; I can honestly say that is probably the least amount that should be done to him.
Watching my boy become his natural self over the course of the weekend sparked something that hasn’t seen the light of the sun in awhile. And I liked it. He told me that he thought I would run after that night…don’t think so. Of course, I really shouldn’t have let on to a couple of my sweet spots, but I couldn’t help that factor. LOL He did such a damn good job of it…and then kept teasing me all weekend, grabbing my nipples and twisting and pulling. Damn! Okay…think of cold thoughts….I gots some issues forming while I am here at work!
I have had someone ask me where this is going to go now. I don’t know. I would like to see further developments, but I am not rushing anything in the least bit. I have a lot going now, as does he. So one step at a time. And that is fine with me. Finding someone these days who doesn’t want to rush into things is almost impossible. But, maybe I have. Now I just have to deal with his older ‘brother’. I think I can do that with no problems, though. After all, he is dating my frat brother from a few years back. How they hooked up, I have no clue in the least.
Now, if I could just get rid of this headache I would be superiorly happy.
Wisdom is often times nearer when we stoop, than when we soar. ~
William WordsworthIf you want to know what a man is really like, take notice how he acts when he loses money. ~
New England ProverbIt is better to wear out one's shoes than one's sheets. ~
Genoese Proverb
Buddhism has the characteristics of what would be expected in a cosmic religion for the future: it transcends a personal God, avoids dogmas and theology; it covers both the natural & spiritual, and it is based on a religious sense aspiring from the experience of all things, natural and spiritual, as a meaningful unity. ~
Albert EinsteinDestruction and violence always produce misery. It is time for the world to learn to transcend differences of race, culture, and ideology, and to regard one another through eyes which understand the human situation. ~
The Dalai LamaSong of the moment: No Strings (Yeah, I am still thinking of the good times from this weekend)